Welcome to my complete D.I.Y, wedding vows and ceremonies guide that will help you create a truly inspirational ceremony with vows that reflect you both; your true thoughts and feelings; vows that will remain in your hearts and minds for a long, long time. Long after other ceremonies and vows have been forgotten, yours will be remembered.
Why spend your precious time looking for books, going through myriad publications for ideas. Don’t give in to the same old cliched, hackneyed ideas. I have done all the hard work for you and come up with a surefire method for creating new, original & compelling ceremonies tailored just for you and your loved one.
In my new e-book, you can instantly choose from over 270 pages of ceremonies, vows, readings, poetry, cultural traditions and rituals, music and songs. PLUS, I’ve included a stress free guide for your wedding day AND a stress free guide for nervous and novice readers!
If you live out of Australia, your local laws would apply to the legal component. Many of the ceremonies mention music/songs actually included on the day.
Also contained in this e-book are additional readings, cultural rituals and traditions to consider adding to your ceremony, additional vows suggestions, music/songs suggestions, hints and tips for nervous and novice readers and a checklist of ideas to reduce stress on your wedding day!
Over 270 pages packed with original, beautiful, inspirational material.
The ceremony is the linchpin of your wedding day. Without a ceremony there is no marriage, no matter how short, how long, how personalized, informal or how formal. It is that special time devoted to the sharing of your thoughts and feelings on marriage, of and to one another, it is the time when you articulate your hopes or wishes and promises for your future together as a married couple.
Thoughtful and insightful personalisation of your ceremony ensures longevity of your ceremony in your minds and those of family and friends, long after other ceremonies have been forgotten.
When it’s the express wish of the couple to have a simple, brief ceremony for a variety of personal reasons. This does not diminish the importance or ‘specialness’ of the ceremony but complies with personal wishes and choice. This ceremony does not necessarily exclude personalized touches.
Weaving a theme throughout your ceremony for example, Buddhist values/ideals, a journey, friendship, love, water, mountain, children, family and friends, promises.
May be a ceremony of any length. Hallmarks of this type of ceremony are usually personally written vows and passages of love and sincere remarks and commitment to and from the groom and the bride.
In a civil ceremony nowadays you don’t have to possess a particular cultural ancestry to include or a tradition or a ritual from eg Celtic, Polish, Buddhist, Jewish or even Swedish cultures.
Information about your relationship you wish to share with family and friends.
Readings can reflect this, adding information about your relationship to the introduction. Children are often involved in these ceremonies.
Neither of the couple has been previously married, the bride is given away by her parents or just her father, the vows are the traditional. For example: 'for richer or poorer in sickness and in health...', the ring ceremony includes 'with this ring, I thee wed.'
Where the celebrant introduces / identify themselves to all present. All are welcomed whether it is the just the couple and two witnesses or a large bridal party and a hundred and fifty guests. The thoughts and feelings that the couple has on marriage are expressed (optional), and a little about the relationship/journey of the couple is also expressed (optional).
a very personal and beautiful part of any ceremony. They add light and dark, they separate, punctuate, they give balance and effect to parts of the ceremony. They provide opportunities for family/friends to participate. This particular reading divides the introduction and the Authorisation. They can continue a theme to assist with the flow of the ceremony.
WLegally required to be in your ceremony, this is an authorization for the celebrant to conduct marriage ceremonies and also to describe the nature of the marriage relationship. The full names of the couple are said at least once during the ceremony to identify them - usually during the introduction or the authorization.
This part’s optional. Traditionally the bride’s father gives her away, but more often now, both the bride and groom are being given away by either parent’s or siblings or sometimes even a child or multiple children! A custom becoming very popular now is for all the family and guests to give both the bride and groom away, collectively! This can be very affirming for the couple.
the groom and bride ask each other if they take one another as husband and wife and answer, “I will” or “I do”. (This part is actually optional).
the bride and groom make special promises or pledges to one another. No matter what promises the couple make to one another the vows have a legally required prefix which states the following: “In the presence of these witnesses, I (name), take you (name), to be my wife/husband”.
it’s usual for the celebrant to make a short statement on the symbolic nature of the ring/s prior to the ring/s being placed on the finger/s. Rings are optional and indeed it is a Celtic custom to sometimes give a torc (bracelet) to one another. It is a Buddhist custom often to give gifts, any type of gift to one another at this time.
this may be done by the celebrant, a guest or the bride and or the groom. This is optional but again acts as a divider and can continue a theme.
the celebrant declares the couple husband and wife, a legal requirement.
legally required, followed by the presentation of the Marriage Certificate to the couple. Then, a final Reading or Blessing is often done, but that’s completely optional. Finally, the new married couple are presented to the guests. Congratulations!
Additionally, in this e-book you will find 25 complete ceremonies and vows to peruse, to give you inspiration to look further or to simply cut and paste, to do-it-yourself. Add your own words as well and the end result will be a truly personalized ceremony and vows that reflects you both, your true thoughts and feelings and one that will remain in your hearts and minds for a long, long time.
Long after other ceremonies and vows have been forgotten, yours will be remembered.
A spiritual journey, inspirational readings, family & friends
2nd marriage, 4 readings, children, friends, sharing wine ritual
Moving personal readings to & from bride and groom
Friendship, children, family, friends, Buddhist scarf ritual
Mountain theme, shared vows and reading
2nd marriage, blended families, shared vows and reading
Buddhist, Quaker, Celtic themes, 2nd marriage, daughter
Rituals, rose petals, hand-fasting, mead, sash pinning
2nd marriage, very thoughtful personal vows, cup wine ritual
Celtic ring warming & quaich of wine rituals, family readings
Sincere, lengthy personal vows
Simple and brief, a child, shared readings
Traditional themes, parents giving away, family readings
Second marriage, moving vows, shared readings
Traditional themes with a butterfly release ritual
Spiritual journey, river, friends, love, Buddhist vows
2nd marriage older couple, sincere personal vows
Love theme, rose ritual, humorous and a shared reading
Short, meaningful and sincere, 2nd marriage for both
Deceased mother candle ritual, inspiring personal vows
2nd marriage, exquisite readings, family and friends
Meaningful and sincere with Celtic hand-fasting ritual
Humorous quotes & readings
Promises, very different vows & readings to one another
Inclusion of children, deceased relatives, bride/groom readings
18 additional readings
22 additional cultural rituals and traditions
Suggested music and songs
Hints & tips for nervous & novice readers
My personal checklist to help reduce stress on your wedding day
One of more than 80 vows in the book: