Marriage Ceremonies When making marriage plans, its vitally important to give serious thought to what we are about to do.....and say during the marriage ceremony. Here are the reasons why....... The words we say to one another at this time are important. They convey our dreams, thoughts, wishes, promises and inner most emotions to our partner. The best opportunity we have to convey important words to our partner are to write our own marriage vows. Another opportunity we have is to include readings or poetry that contain positive messages for partners, families and friends. Acknowledgement of relatives or mentors (whether present or not) who have had an influence on our lives can be done by including a short ritual into the ceremony. These rituals ideally contain personalised and appropriate words best written by the bride or groom. Words of songs are an equally important way to convey our thoughts and wishes to wedding ceremony participants as well. To assist you with getting your wedding ceremony words ‘just right’ I have compiled ceremonies as guides for you to effortlessly personalize in every way.